I am really enjoying being a mom even if it makes me so tired physically. It's very fulfilling...

by Marianne Williamson (from the movie “Coach Carter&rdquo

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

Is it fair?
Is it justifiable?

I've been so affected with the number of couples whom I know and very close with that fall apart for this very reason. Maybe I fear of experiencing the same. But what really made this men philander?

Is it just because of the shortcomings of their spouses?
Don't they have their flaws too?

Is it because they want excitement?
Why don't they do it with their betrothed woman?

What if their wives would do the same thing as revenge? How would they feel?

My first at work from my three-month maternity leave.

It's hard to leave my little Nigel. But I thank my hubby for making it easier for me. He filed a leave for today and it really means so much to me. Just the thought of him being with our boy lessens the worry.

Back to work...